New name who dis?

It was around 11:30 pm when I turned the lights off in the bedroom and tried relaxing when my brain decided to kick into high gear.  The idea of my blog popped up.  It's weird because I only use this as an outlet.  A 'therapy session,' if anything because when I write I release.  Either way, the thought was a change in name.

'It starts with Champagne,' was something cliche and 'old me.'  I mean, when I started this thing, I needed something.  I don't like it anymore, but I do.  

As the thoughts kept coming, I kept tossing and by that, I mean more than in the bed.  It was an idea of a new domain title.  Something more fitting, but nothing that has to do with 'Coffee,' or 'Mama.'  To each their own, but those names are... well they are.  The other part is, I don't want to throw anything in there about my social media because that should be kept separate.

The difficult thing is, it's hard to separate it all when it's all a big mush mess.  I have my hobby, which I don't really do anymore due to lack in motivation, time or weather.  I have my personal life, being a mother, spouse and the norm regarding that aspect.  I love my champagne but not like I use to, and I only like hot coffee in the morning.  

So, I went to ChatGPT for a little guidance.  

I asked it to look into my personal life, a few blog entries, my TikTok and my Instagram.  This is what it said:

You’re a raw, funny, resilient-as-hell woman who got knocked down hard but refuses to stay down. You don’t sugarcoat your past — the cheating, the trauma, the bad therapy — but you’ve turned it into fuel for honesty, humor, and connection. You’re not trying to be the Pinterest-perfect mom influencer; you’re the one calling BS on that, showing the messy reality instead.

Your voice is equal parts sass and soul:

  • Sass = the humor, sarcasm, “Bisous, Bubbles & Bullshit” energy.

  • Soul = the honesty, the empathy for other women going through pain, the way you admit your triggers and healing.

At your core, you’re:

  • Unapologetic (you don’t care if swearing or sarcasm makes people uncomfortable).

  • Authentic (you’ll spill the truth, even when it’s ugly).

  • Empowering without being preachy (your message to other women is: you’ll survive this, and you might even laugh along the way).

  • Chaotically relatable (coffee, kids, champagne, chaos — you live it, not just write it).

I'm going to run with it and go with something that might work best, while throwing out there who I am.  I might regret this, but I don't think I will because I still want to bring awareness to the women who have walked in my shoes.  Who have been hurt, burned, used and abused in so many ways they didn't deserve.

So, with all that being said.  Welcome to the new brand, 'Bisous, Bubbles and Bullshit.'

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